Human Monogamy: Innate Tendency or Personal Preference

Abstract

Successful monogamous relationships may come as second nature to some. For others, remaining emotionally and sexually exclusive with their partner is difficult, leaving individuals to question whether monogamy is a natural human instinct. This paper evaluates research fortifying monogamy as an inborn tendency and research reinforcing the notion that exclusive dyadic relationships are a socialized personal preference. Monogamy is supported through survival instinct, procreation, and pair bonding. Humanity as a non-monogamous species is supported through infidelity threats, jealous tendencies, sexual fulfillment, and the potential mating candidates of the modern world. After assessing both sides, the author makes an informed stance on the debate.